Poor and rich, not as good as these 20
  1. The smaller the promise, the more you must keep it.
  "That book I borrowed you" "Meal next time together", these words are all a small agreement, the letter of code will make the other party feel "ah, he still remembers" "originally not a guest set", leaving the other party sincere A good impression of trustworthiness.
  2, do not move other people's items
  It’s really embarrassing to use yourself as an outsider and others to use it casually. Do not tamper with other people's things and respect the privacy of others. Before you can take someone else's things, you must get the other party's consent.
  3, try to do less to reach out to the party
  Do your own things as much as possible, don't bother others, trouble others, and be thankful and not strong.
  4, accept the candid frankness, and simply refuse to have concerns
  For example, when dealing with older people, sometimes the other party will ask for dinner. Always saying "no need" is too much to quit. It is actually a behavior that makes the other party have no face. It’s better to accept good intentions frankly and give the right side.
  5, want to get help from others, please learn to pay first
  Even if it is just a simple greeting and a smile, first satisfy the emotional needs of the other party. The essence of interpersonal communication is exchange and reciprocity.
  6, everything is 10 minutes in advance
  Not only is the advance time, in case of accidents, it is to arrange the mood in advance and enter the state.
  7, often grateful , to convey gratitude to be specific
  For example, eating a delicious snack from someone else, more than one "thank you", but also remember to convey the specific feeling of "this taste is very good", will make the other party feel that your gratitude is not a guest.
  When thanking the child, doing so will also make the child aware of which specific behavior he has done well and is therefore strengthened.
  8, not behind the people to say bad things, not talking about right and wrong
  Don't just comment on others, learn to respect the differences of others, even if it makes you feel incomprehensible.
  9. Courtesy should be for everyone
  Treat everyone politely, whether it is a boss, an elder, a restaurant waiter, or an old man on the roadside.
  10. It is the responsibility to do safety and sanitation when walking the dog.
  When walking the dog, remember to pull the rope, the large dog with a mask, cleaning the pet's excrement.
  11, public places try not to affect others
  When watching the show and movie, the phone automatically adjusts to the vibration mode. When you are late, please lower your body and watch the show to pack up the garbage.
  Take your child to the cinema, don't let the children's noise affect others. This is really important.
  12, eat things and clean up their own tableware
  Whether you are at home or at a restaurant, try to pack the food residue into a dish to make it easier for others to clean up.
  13. When you take the escalator, you can stand up and get a good road.
  Consciously let the fast-passing person let go of the side passage to provide convenience for others.
  14, pay attention to sitting posture, do not pay arms or hips legs
  Do not shake your legs in public, it is easy to affect people around you and around.
  15, the most basic table manners
  Do not make a sound when eating, do not arbitrarily turntable, do not turn over the dishes, do not clip the dishes you like, use public chopsticks to use public chopsticks. In public, don't eat anything that smells big and has a lot of debris.
  16, clothing matching and manners
  Dressing, cleansing and fit, and matching occasions are more important than fashion. Hands are not inserted into the pocket, and the manner is more important than what to wear.
  The shape of the clothing will affect a person's spiritual temperament and self-identity. Don't let the child wear unfit clothes in order to save money.
  17. If you are in trouble, you want to solve the problem first. Don’t just know the troubles and swear.
  Excessive complaints will only exhaust the energy you should have used to solve the problem. Instead of wasting your time on anxiety, it is better to take more time to read a book.
  18, things that others like, do not make negative comments
  Your taste is good, it is also yours. It is the minimum social etiquette to not comment on what others like.
  19, prepare some small things in the bag, in case you or others need it from time to time
  For example: wound stickers, toilet paper, small snacks, garbage bags. A person who can always come up with something to resolve when someone else has a need for it is sure to be very caring.
  20, don't take others for your good, as a matter of course
  Whether it is family or friends, you should be grateful to those who are good to you.