Educating your own children is your most important cause.Time:2019-08-09 | Release:Inspirational | Category:family Education
Giving everything to your teacher is a very irresponsible performance for parents. Because the teacher is no longer responsible, he can't do the following:
1. The teacher cannot guarantee the good conduct of your child.
Whether a person is good or bad, good conduct is the key! Morality can make up for the shortcomings of ability, but ability is difficult to cover up the defects of morality. But the child's conduct is largely related to his tutor. The teacher is only passed on to the acquaintances, but the parents are the influencers of the child's life. Parents' words and deeds are always greater than the teacher's 45-minute classroom education.
Therefore, if you want your child to have good conduct, family education is the key, the teacher can do nothing!
2, the teacher can not give your child good habits
The children who grew up at the mahjong table and in front of the TV are definitely different from the children who are educated by the parents who love reading. This is why many parents often receive a strong rebellion when they watch TV and urge their children to study seriously. They also don't want to think about things that they can't do, how can they force their children to do it?
Most of the children who are motivated and raised by parents with good habits are those who love to learn and can arrange their time reasonably. Parents will save a lot of heart in education, so when you can't understand why children have so many bad things, first review yourself, maybe you will find the root cause!
3, the teacher can not give you the interest of your child to study
Many parents blame their children for not learning and not reading. But I didn’t ask myself, do you like reading books? The interest of children in reading is cultivated from an early age. Children of two or three years old should start reading, instead of waiting for the school to let the teacher develop the habit of reading for your child.
There are many books in your family, and there are many children studying. Parents play a good role, the child will follow suit, on the contrary, the child can only imitate you to do other things. Whether the gap between reading and reading from a young age will be manifested in the later level of knowledge, cognitive ability and writing level.
4, the teacher can not help you cultivate the child's will
What the teacher gives more to the children is textbook knowledge, good habits, human reason, and strong will. These are all dependent on parents. The teacher is not obligated to help you to train. These can only be cultivated by parents in their daily lives. If you ignore it, your child may have a good grade, but his will is weak and he will not be frustrated . Therefore, EQ education is also very important.
5, the teacher can not give your child a long-term happiness
The original ecological family where a person is located has a great influence on his life. The husband and wife are loving, the family is harmonious, and the children who grow up in a loving environment are destined to be children who are not healthy in the family or who are growing up in a noisy family. I have a lot of sunshine in my heart. And this is what the teacher can't give, but it can decide the child's life!
to sum up:
A good teacher may be able to influence the child for three or five years, but the influence of the parents is a lifetime!
The child is not a teacher, it is yours, the parent is always the child's first teacher, and the child is always a role model, please be a competent parent!
Say a thousand and ten thousand, your child is only one of the N teachers, and educating your child is only part of the teacher's work; but you are different, the child is your only, educating your child, always Your most important cause.