No job is not wrongedTime:2019-08-07 | Release:Inspirational | Category:Youthful inspiration
Recently, many friends around me resigned.
Ask them why, most people’s answer is: the job is too wronged –
My work is particularly hard, I have to work overtime every day, and my salary is extremely low. My last job, the boss is very special, three days and two hairs are very harsh, everyone is very harsh; my job is too boring, repeating every day. Mechanical things, can't see where their prospects are...
Many people feel that their work is particularly wronged and they especially want to resign. However, perhaps each of us does not have the same job content, different levels of hard work, different pressures and difficulties, but each person's work has its own difficulties.
I am often told that I am looking for a job I like. Therefore, when the work does not meet their expectations, the first reaction of many people is that I have to change jobs. However, if you change your job, will the situation really get better? Didn't you bother?
The friend Daxin originally sold in a company, but he didn't like it very much. He especially envied the work of the TV station, so he went through the hardships of his favorite TV station.
After I went there, I discovered that I had to rack my brains to plan the content of the program. I often went out for an interview when the sun was shining or when the rain was heavy. It was normal to participate in post-production.
Half a year later, the work that once had light in his eyes gradually dimmed.
I have seen such a sentence : Your cognition requires a process, so I feel that choosing a job with likes or dislikes is dangerous for 90% of people. Because I am afraid, you think that you like things, you will find that you don't like it after you do it.
Therefore, to treat a job, you cannot judge it by simply like it or not. More should be the multi-dimensional consideration of the job, whether it can bring you a satisfactory salary, whether you can grow in this job, whether the job has a good prospect, and so on.
There is such a saying: the real meaning of work is the capital of your life, the platform for your self-realization, the wealth you have to eat, the filial piety, and the filial piety that keeps you awake at night.
This is indeed the case, no work likes or dislikes, no ability to do it.
In the workplace , there are often grievances. To get through the hard work, you have to have two abilities. In addition to knowing how to persist , the other is to learn to adjust the mindset.
I have seen a story. A person took a taxi home in the cold winter night. When he got on the bus, he found that the car was different from other taxis. It was very warm, and there were sachets and decorations inside.
When he just sat down, the driver asked him if he was cold or not, and there was a hand warmer on the car. When the car started, the driver worried that he was hungry, he took out the snacks and asked him if he wanted to eat. He also took out the magazine to give him time to pass him, and treated him as a friend who came to the house.
He was very surprised and asked the driver why he had such a move. The driver said: "Actually, I used to be a person who likes to complain. Until one day I heard a radio show saying: 'If you want to change your life, you should change yourself first. If you think the world is too dark, then Everything that happens will make you unhappy.” So I changed my mindset, stopped complaining, learned to do every detail, and treated every guest well.
In the past, my business was very general, and I was often complained. Since then, my business has become more and more popular. Many people will come to book my car when they travel far. My world has become brighter, as if everyone around me is my noble person. ”
The "state" of the mentality, the dismantling and opening, is a big heart. In life and at work, you will encounter many grievances and unwillingness. If everything is to be taken care of, it is really too tired, and it is easy to hinder you from moving forward.
As long as you have a bigger heart and put all your thoughts on you, you will find that the happiness of harvest is the most precious asset of your life compared to the grievances you receive at work.
Everyone living in the world has his own life and mission, and he has to bear the bitterness and difficulty that belongs to you. No one is easier or easier than anyone else.
When you want to give up at work, or feel very difficult, please tell yourself: it is easy to have a job, there is always a way in life to finish yourself.
Instead of complaining about the hardships of work, it is better to adjust your mentality. As you gradually learn to persist and strengthen yourself, you can finally pass through the dark night, walk through the rough road, cross the rushing river, and harvest the life you want.