My mother-in-law was having a sudden cerebral infarction when she was having lunch with us.

  Then there was a busy rescue process, hit 120, sent an emergency, was notified of the next critical illness, and spent the next year at the operating room door, waiting for the news of the operation failure.

  The doctor told us that the thrombus could not be taken and could only be sent to the ICU for observation. In the next 7 to 10 days, you will face a high risk of cerebral palsy. Whether you can survive or not is unknown, and even if you pass this level, your mother-in-law will be partial to aphasia and become a half-plant.

  Seriously, if it is not personal experience, I think I will never have the feeling of this feeling: obviously, the family is still happy to sit and eat and chat together in the last second, but in the next second, you can only look at your own Dear loved ones were sentenced to serious illness, life and death are not clear.

  In the evening, Mr. asked me to go home to rest, but I insisted on staying at the door of ICU, and I would not leave in one step. I had to advise him, he should also pay attention to take care of his body, it is really tired, just rest in the chair for a while.

  This man who had experienced the death of his father's cancer ten years ago, has been busy dealing with various problems since the mother's onset, contacted doctors, raised money for surgery, and informed relatives and friends about the situation. The only time she shed tears was when she was told by her doctor that her mother-in-law had failed. She turned silently and hid in the corner to sneak.

  I know that he is actually more upset than anyone else. He just has to make himself strong and calm, so that he can not be knocked down by this sudden disaster, in order to be able to afford the next family burden.

  In the few days I stayed with the ICU, I met many people like Mr. They silently waited outside the ward of their loved ones, calmed, no sighs, no complaints. If you are not sitting here, no one knows what kind of grief they are suffering .

  I think of a saying: Snow that falls in everyone's life, we can't see it all.

  In the world of adults, how many are silent, how many are covered and bitter and tired. Because you look around and look around, you need to be yourself, so you must live strong , you must eat the bitterness that is not known, endure the pain that is not known, and endure the loneliness that is not known.

  Hard work is the normal state of life, but because of love and responsibility, we have become the most brave adults.


  Not long ago, I saw a tearful news on Weibo.

  Young man Xiao Zhang is working with his wife to make a living from outside to Nanjing. As a salesperson, the income must be matched with performance. He also had to go out to accompany the customers to socialize, but the result was too much alcohol and drunk at the subway station.

  When I saw the police asking for help, he was exhausted. He said his heart through the spirit of alcohol: "I really don't drink alcohol, but I have to seriously accompany the customer when I want to sign the bill. In fact, even if I drink it like this, this single business. I don't necessarily have to talk about it, I am also helpless, really there is no way."

  He said that in order to give his wife a warm little home, he has been working hard and willingly swallow all kinds of difficulties and sufferings.

  In fact, in the past few years of sales, such a moment has already experienced countless times for him. If he is not really drunk, he will still choose to swallow the grievances tonight, not to alarm anyone.

  The good news is that Xiao Zhang’s wife rushed in quickly after receiving the notice from the police. When she saw her filthy husband, she did not blame, but opened her hands and poured her into her arms with great distress. The wife told the police that she understood her husband's difficulties and hoped to be his backing.

  Until the time of the support, the couple still apologized to the people around them, saying sorry, to trouble everyone.

  This scene in the video has touched me for a long time.

  Everyone is carrying weights, and under the seemingly calm and strong appearance, there must have been difficult stories that are unknown.

  But it is precisely because of this that we can hold up a day for the people we love, in order to walk from the muddy to the years.

  Just like Xiao Zhang, every bitterness he has eaten, although never stated, has always been seen by the lover, in his heart. And this firm support and companionship is actually the best reward for his hard work.

  Those who have the courage to take responsibility are qualified to harvest happiness.


  Some people say that time is like rain. We are all people walking in the rain. We must bear the blessings of the world and fight the storm.

  I think so. There are tests in life, and on the way forward, there is always a need to go through some difficult times alone. But even so, I believe that there are still countless people who will choose to grit their teeth and stand up again after the fall and continue to move forward.

  This is not pretending to be reluctant, and no one is born to be invincible, just because, in our hearts filled with love.

  For this reason, we are willing to go a long way, and we will be able to swallow it as much as we can.

  We grow up because of love, and we are brave because of love. And all these experiences of growing up in hardship will eventually make us stronger and stronger.

  I really like this lyric: If you don't think about returning to you, you will surrender to your destiny.

  In this world, there will always be a person who deserves our best to guard. In the same way, there will always be a love that will accompany us all the time of loneliness and accompany us through the cold winter of life .

  So if you have unfortunately to bear, remember to keep going. Think about the person you love, and then tell yourself that you can't stop, your happiness is boundless.

  Everything is bitter, and there is always a return.

  May you pass through all the unseen sufferings, and the rest of your life will be happiness.