The quickest way to ruin a person is to teach him to ＂take sTime:2019-08-06 | Release:Inspirational | Category:Youthful inspiration
A friend of mine, I suddenly fell in love with writing, and found me in a roundabout way, I hope I can help her.
After reading a few articles, I found that she wrote all the splicing of gossip, not to mention literary talents, even the basic authenticity and opinions.
I said to her: "You can't write like this."
She returned to me: "How can I not? Like this kind of article, I can see more people! I just insist on writing it down, I can definitely become a big V."
Then she cut a few pictures for me, and the reading was really good.
She said: "Oh, I found that I found a shortcut to success !"
I suddenly speechless: Once a person believes that he has found a "shortcut", it means that she will never consider anything else.
Everyone wants to find a shortcut.
It was like a group of people on a muddy path, watching the target in the foreseeable future. Suddenly there was a boulevard next to it, flat and wide, and straight to Rome.
Ask, who doesn't want to go?
There are no shortcuts in the world, and there are more people to go, so there are shortcuts.
But the people who take shortcuts never think about it. Why are shortcuts so good, and there are still so few people who have reached the end?
There are many people who walked over and fewer people came out. This fully shows that the other end of the shortcut is probably a trap.
In our elementary school natural class, there is a section of garlic.
The teacher arranged the homework and asked each of us to go home and bring it to school two weeks later.
I immediately got into the kitchen after school and found a bag of garlic. At this time, I only need to pick out a few full and firm garlic cloves and plant them in pots.
Can be biased, I have a brainstorming.
Because I found that in this bag of garlic, a few have sprouted, showing a pointed bud.
“If I use the already sprouted garlic cloves, can I save a lot of waiting time?”
So I specifically picked the sprouted garlic.
When other students are waiting for the garlic to sprout, my seed has begun to pump long leaves.
"Ah, I am so smart!"
In a blink of an eye, two weeks passed. My classmates and I agreed to bring the garlic seeds into the classroom.
A blushing scene happened:
The garlic seedlings of others are all brushed to the blue sky, like the little warriors wearing military uniforms. Only the garlic seedlings I planted are like a messy hair.
Even the well-informed teachers looked at them and tried to explain why my garlic was different: "Maybe the garlic is sick."
Only I know that the garlic cloves are not sick, but because I am eager to take the "shortcut" and use the garlic cloves lying in the bag.
Garlic lying on the germination is not a disease, I believe that "pseudo-shortcut" is a disease.
The quickest way to ruin a person is to teach him to take shortcuts and enjoy the easiest success.
Someone once asked me to complain: "I really can't figure out, why should I fight like this?"
"We have a little girl in our office, one year younger than me. She is very spoiled. She has a very good relationship with our manager. She often does not do anything. The manager only closes her eyes and never cares about her." ""
"I sometimes don't want to understand, the problem that can be solved with coquetry, why should I fight so much?"
But after another two years, she never complained again.
Because the confused manager was fired from the company because of negligent work.
The little girl who loves to be spoiled, lost her dependence, lacked the basic ability to work, and quickly fell into a state of being hit by the wall, suffering from various kinds of eyes in the company.
However, she did not dare to resign because she knew that nothing would be done, and the same was true for another place.
She can only squat and have not been expelled, like a new person to ask around, to make up all kinds of common sense in the work, to walk the muddy path that others have gone through, and go again.
As the saying goes, life has no way to go, every step counts. In fact, there is no way to go in life. Every step of lazy and lazy walking needs to be replenished from elsewhere.
People who are eager to make shortcuts often think that success is really simple, and without any sweat, they can water a successful flower.
I don't know, there is a kind of flower called "a short-lived".
Young people who have just stepped onto the society are often overwhelmed by various "pseudo-shortcuts".
Young people who like to write can see the flow of traffic when they see it, and they don’t want to hone their basic skills.
Young people who like to paint can see the imitation of the four-seat, and no longer care about their creative ability.
Young people who like to perform, as long as they are dressed into awl faces, they can easily become a net red, and no longer have to polish their acting skills.
There are too many "shortcuts" for success. They are not willing to work hard, and they don't care. What they are doing can produce value and can last for a long time.
Once a person chooses shortcut, you will live in the short and nothingness harvest, gradually forget the struggle should look like. In the end, they became the most inconspicuous of a number of shoddy counterfeits.
Zeng Guopan wrote to his son’s family book:
"The rest of everything is used to know what to do, but you can't ask for a name too much, and the effect is too good. If you pass this pass, you can make less progress. If you go into trouble again, then you will work hard again, and you will be prosperous." day."
It means to say: "Be slow to do things, don't think about success all the time. When you encounter difficulties, you will slowly groan and always come out. This kind of success is solid."
As long as people live, they face a marathon, and they are really capable.
And all the "pseudo-shortcut" road signs are traps that entice you to give up running.