You live a life full of wretchedness, why should you expect to meet a noble person?
 
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  I often hear those confused around me lamenting: "We just don't have the support of noble people. If someone mentions it a little bit, it won't be so bad!" They said so sincerely, I even believed their View.
 
  But what does this noble look like? They couldn't say it at all. I pondered carefully that what they call a noble person is probably such a person who can give them a chance to make a lot of money or rise to a fairly high position.
 
  When I figured out the truth, I couldn't help thinking that the noble man you said might not have been born yet.
 
  I have a friend who has worked hard in the industry for a long time. For some time, he tried to "jump" I went to a unit to help them compile the information . I didn't want to go and then recommended another person to him. He waved his hand and said, "If you don't want to go, just recommend it because I believe you will be able to do it well. I don't know the ability of others when I change people. How dare I recommend it?"
 
  The attitude of this friend is basically the attitude of many "nobles": if you can carry you, first you have to carry it.
 
  Those who often complain about the lack of nobles in their lives may have flashed great ideals and extraordinary feelings, but that's all. In real life, most of them will live through it, without a skill, no special hobbies, and no faith. Others have sharpened their swords and cut iron into mud for ten years. He has spent most of his life and has not sharpened a decent hatchet.
 
  I always think that first of all, it is necessary to have a piece of jade to win the favor of those skilled craftsmen. Even if you don't have the corresponding professional knowledge for the time being, at least show the quality of willingness and hard work. Otherwise, millions of people in the world, why do people look at you and carry you, so that you can reach the peak of life from then on?
 
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  Birds sing in the forest in order to find similar species. Regardless of ancient, modern, Chinese, or foreign, as long as it is the same era, the outstanding people in an industry almost always know each other.
 
  Good people are always classified automatically within a certain period of time. Therefore, if you want to make the bulls your nobles, you must first make yourself the same, even if you are still weak right now.
 
  What is a kind of noble? That is, in pursuit of faith, persistence, moral quality, professionalism, and living habits, they should be maintained at almost the same level as them. If you can't come together with them at this level, please don't expect to talk to them in real life.
 
  Just like me at this moment, if Ma Yun sits in front of me, I really don't know what to ask him to carry me. The only thing I can do is to take out a small book and ask him to sign my name, and then send a circle of friends to show off.
 
  The gap between us and the cattle is sometimes not just material and status, but also the realm of life, including values, ways of thinking, and mental state. To me, it may not be possible to think with those cows; to them, I may not be able to raise their slightest interest. In this case, even if he is "expensive", it may not be my nobleman.
 
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  Generally speaking, nobles are more likely to bring with them themselves. And the reason why they can have today's success and status must be some hard work. So, if you want to win the favor of your nobles:
 
  First of all, you must be full of positive energy , optimistic , willing to take risks, adventurous, and not afraid of failure.
 
  Second, be good at learning , summarizing, and self-reflection. Reading is the noblest move in the world with the lowest threshold and the easiest way to bridge the gap between us and the best people.
 
  Third, diligently study and work in their own field. As the saying goes, opportunities do not patronize unprepared people. The harder you work, the luckier you get. When you keep striving and surpassing yourself, others will respect you, appreciate you, and promote you.
 
  As a matter of fact, I am more willing to believe in "rewarding diligence" than "supporting by noble people"-you are your own nobleman! If no one appreciates and promotes you for the time being, then do everything well down to earth: shape your body, repair your character inside, read introspectively, and keep improving.
 
  Because those who help themselves are not as expensive as they are. Only you can determine the direction of your life.