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  I used to be afraid of a high school teacher's words . He said: "The college entrance examination can change your destiny and test your life." Many people think that the college entrance examination is good and life will be more exciting.
 
  This is also true to some extent. However, the college entrance examination is only a ritual in the process of growing up. It takes the form of exam papers and puts you to the end of a decade of hard work, and then opens a new chapter. The college entrance examination score only determines where you are going to live in the next three or four years.
 
  After three or four years, where will you go, where you will go, what kind of successes and failures you will face , these are not the scores of the college entrance examination.
 
  The college entrance examination does not determine your life. After the college entrance examination is over, your life is really starting.
 
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  After the college entrance examination, the first thing you have to learn is to live independently.
 
  A reader once asked me: "The college entrance examination is a matter of four years ago. I only remember that it was quite peaceful at the time. On the first day of the college entrance examination, I went shopping alone. In fact, I admire myself at that time. I read books and study and eat. I never feel lonely, but I feel lonely when I go to college. I want to find the one who worked hard with the previous one. I don’t want anything and have my own goals."
 
  Before the college entrance examination, we have a specific goal. There are a group of people who work together for the common goal, and they live a very fulfilling day. After the college entrance examination, the goal of this kind has disappeared. No one has set a goal for us, and then drives us forward. We suddenly can't adapt, and we don't know how to live alone.
 
  What is independent living? Independent living means that life can take care of itself, that thought can be independent, and that the economy can be free.
 
  Leaving the care of the parents in the greenhouse, going alone outside to experience the ups and downs, how to learn to take care of their next life, these are the skills that should be learned after the college entrance examination.
 
  The independence of thought lies in the fact that its spiritual world can be continuously enriched, able to overcome loneliness, to have its own spiritual pursuits, to have its own characteristics in the group, and to be inappropriate.
 
  After the college entrance examination, you are already an adult. You should learn to be a weaned child. Don't always take the "milk" of your parents, and plan for the future to see how to learn economic independence and reduce the burden on parents.
 
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  After the college entrance examination, the second thing you have to learn is to do things for others.
 
  Before the college entrance examination, in your environment, the score determines your position and decides whether you are a "good boy" or a "bad child" in the eyes of adults. After the college entrance examination, you have entered another world. This world is not just about measuring you by score.
 
  In this new world, others will measure your position in their hearts based on how you do things. How to behave to people, how to do things, here are three views of you, three different people, the method of doing things is very different.
 
  Your way of doing things is comfortable, others will put you in your heart. Your way of doing things is uncomfortable, others will leave you.
 
  How to deal with people, how to respond to others' words, how to deal with a matter that makes them uncomfortable, these are the wisdom of life.
 
  And such a way of doing things requires us to consciously learn, even the wisdom we need to learn all our lives.
 
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  After the college entrance examination, the third thing you have to learn is to study for yourself.
 
  Before the college entrance examination, we were studying for the college entrance examination. After the college entrance examination, many people are glad that they have escaped from the bitter sea of ​​books, and are able to stay away from the daily life with the book, so they start to play every day.
 
  As everyone knows, in the days before the college entrance examination, you are studying for reading, but the days after the college entrance examination are the time when you can really study for yourself.
 
  The end of the college entrance examination, let us usher in a broader space, and we are actually jumping from one aquarium to another, continue to struggle, or go to a broader space, sucking knowledge of the dew? These depend on our vision, on our thinking, on our wisdom.
 
  The improvement of vision, thinking, and wisdom is inseparable from the accumulation of ordinary reading. People should learn to study for life instead of ending with the end of the college entrance examination.
 
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  After the college entrance examination, the fourth thing you have to learn is to make friends.
 
  The most precious thing in life is that there are three or two friends who help each other and grow together.
 
  Some people often have groups of friends around, and some people are always alone, without any friends.
 
  Some people will always consider their friends wholeheartedly to help their friends; but some people always think about squeezing friends everywhere.
 
  Some people think about growing up with friends, but some people can't get used to their friends.
 
  Different ways of making friends determine the level of your friends. You need to think about how to get along with your friends more comfortably. How can you leave an irreplaceable position in your friends' minds? How can you let friends talk to you?
 
  Don't worry, the college entrance examination results can't decide your life. The college entrance examination only draws a full stop for ten years of hard work, and the real life has just begun!